Can true love take a break |
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No. According to myself, I don't think that a true love can take a break. I agree that tension, problems, fights can be there in a relationship but the solution is not to take a break. Instead, first, both need to ask themselves alone whose mistake it was and what percentage was their mistake.
Then both should sit together and talk about the matter and should tell their views truly by heart and not in ego, if both want to save the relationship.
I'm in a relationship from past 3 years and in this 3 years. There were many situations and times when we both thought that it's going to be over. But, we solved it out every time by talking and discussing it and not by taking a break.
As its rightly said "In love, there is no past tense. It's either you always will, or you never did."
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Yes, true love can take a break. Sometimes, that's needed if there is alot of fighting or aggrevation. Sometimes, people will take one and it will make them realize how much they mean to each other and things will last longer and they will appriciate more.
Yes, I think that ture love can take a break. My mama was with my daddy for along time then after a while they was not seeing eye to eye, so the decide to talk to other people. Then, after a year of doing that, they got back together and stayed together for a long time.
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Yes, true love can take a break! I had been with my fiancée for over a year. We had a house and jobs and we were doing pretty well. Until about two weeks ago, I woke up and there was a note saying that he left and wasn't coming back. I fell apart. He lied to me and continues to. But, I have no doubt in my mind of heart that he loves me. He moved over 500 miles away from his family and everything he has ever known just to be with me. We have been through so much since we have been together. I have talked to him twice since he has been gone and every time, he says he loves me and misses and when I ask him if he thinks in the future we will be together, he says yes. I will eventually trust him again. I have faith in him and I believe in him. You have to have faith in your love and know that if it is true love nothing can change it. When you truly love someone and you are apart, you start to love them more. Sometimes, a break is a good thing. Have faith and believe in the other person and in yourself, if they really love you and you truly love them. Time will bring you back together. Love always finds a way.
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It's like a yes and no answer.
You can say true love never should take a break because if it's true love, then why does there need to be a break? If there's a fight or argument and if something happens in the relationship, I think if that person truly loves you they wont try and take a break. Personally, I hate breaks, because it happened before to me and then the girl turned her back on me and went to hang with another guy and ended up dating him, which hurt so much because you know you have feelings for someone and, yet, you have to look at them all but cheat on you.
Also, taking a break in true love can be like there's a ton of love, but before you commit to that love, you need to know how much this person means to you and live life like that.
I'm sure not any expert on this. I've been through so much when I was younger. Yet I wanted to run away from all the pain and all love can be a powerful force.
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I am in this situation right now. I have been with my girlfriend for three years, and the relationship was moving in the direction of making a serious commitment and getting married. I had always hoped, dreamed and believed that we would marry and have a home together. But, as things became more serious in the relationship, she began to pull away and I began to get clingy. We both became afraid, and this fear caused a lot of tension. Finally, she asked for a three week break to figure things out. This is the hardest thing to do to give her the space to do that, because I need her, I am scared, and all I want is for all of this to go away and just to curl up next to her and hold her forever. I will admit that for the first three days, I called her, emailed her and even went to her house. I hated myself for it every time. But starting today, I will do everything it takes to give her the time and the freedom she needs. I respect her for wanting to take this time to figure things out. I respect her for being honest about her needs. And I know that I have a lot of work to do before I am even worthy of her love. Ironically, I need to learn to be OK without her in order to be with her. The good thing is, the more I can take care of myself now, the easier it will be to do the same thing if she doesn't come back.
That's the most roundabout way to my answer: I think there's no single answer to this question. Taking a break in a relationship is almost always a sign of serious strain and troubles. Sometimes, taking a break is a sign of an imminent breakup. And, sometimes, it is the beginning of something wonderful. Either way, take this time to work on yourself, to make yourself stronger and more independent. Most likely, if you, like me, were not the one who initiated the break, there was a imbalance of power in the relationship. You might have been a little too smothering and clingy, your partner may have been distancing themselves, and you may have been caught in that vicious cycle for a long time. If handled correctly, the break can be an opportunity to readjust that imbalance. If you are able to keep your cool, take care of yourself on your own, and not seem too desperate, you will gain a lot of worth, both, in your own eyes and those of your partner.
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Be careful not to let it take a permanent break... :|
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Yes, true love can take a break. I was getting too clingy and and never letting her go out or hang out. She asked for a month break and she said "I wanna see if I even miss you if you're gone". I told her that a month is too long! And, we figured that in a week, we will start to talk see how things are going if she misses me, then good. But, if she doesn't, then we would give it another week or two. She also said she didnt want any forms of contact. I thought it was a little ridiculous, but I am still in this process, at this moment. And, she is still dating me as of right now, and I believe things are gonna turn out good and everything will be good. Just like someone else said before making that final desicion point in life, "If you truly want to be with someone, then, you might have to take a break. Get out see if you really miss that person enough." I agree 100% with that. I have been in this relationship for 2 years now and love her to death. I hate not being with her and cry at least 2 times a day over it. I drove to her housing developement and stopped before entering. I just wanted to see her or even her house. But, I said "No. She really would be mad and I would drive her away if she found out that I did." And, yes, true love can take a break.
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I am asking myself this question right now and have been asking it for three months now, because me and my boyfriend broke up back in January. He broke up with me, because he felt like he was getting pushed away by the negative things that I did that caused us to break up, such as arguing, bringing another guy in between us, not getting along and agreeing on things, etc. He told me that he felt like we needed a long break from each other and that me and him should just be friends and that we would get back with each other some day again, because true love always find a way back to one another. I believed him, but, now, he has a girlfriend and I'm still single, because I was waiting for him to be ready to be with me again. This hurt me and still hurts today somewhat, but I feel like he still loves me and I do still love him. In my opinion, I think that true love can take a break, so the other one who has messed up or caused the break up can appreciate the other person more and when they get the second chance, they will do a million times better in the relationship. Also, if a relationship isn't healthy and have too many problems, it's necessary to take a break, no matter how long, so that the two can be able to miss each other and realize who they love. True love taking a break is always a positive thing to do in my book. If it is necessary to take a break then two who are in love should do so, not to end the relationship, but to realize things that they didn't realize while they were in a relationship, but I feel like true love always finds its way back to one another and I feel like my boyfriend and I will be back together some day again, no matter how long it takes, a week, a month, or even some years for us to get back together. I feel like we will, and even though he has a girlfriend, I feel like he's going to realize who his true love is and who he should be with, because the heart don't lie when it comes to true love.
As a matter of fact, if it is true love, it shouldn't have to take a break. Breaks are for relationships, in which can not handle the time and effort it takes to be included in one.
No. According to myself, I don't think that a true love can take a break. I agree that tension, problems, fights can be there in a relationship but the solution is not to take a break. Instead, first, both need to ask themselves alone whose mistake it was and what percentage was their mistake.
Then both should sit together and talk about the matter and should tell their views truly by heart and not in ego, if both want to save the relationship.
I'm in a relationship from past 3 years and in this 3 years. There were many situations and times when we both thought that it's going to be over. But, we solved it out every time by talking and discussing it and not by taking a break.
As its rightly said "In love, there is no past tense. It's either you always will, or you never did."
ANSWER:
Yes, true love can take a break. Sometimes, that's needed if there is alot of fighting or aggrevation. Sometimes, people will take one and it will make them realize how much they mean to each other and things will last longer and they will appriciate more.
Yes, I think that ture love can take a break. My mama was with my daddy for along time then after a while they was not seeing eye to eye, so the decide to talk to other people. Then, after a year of doing that, they got back together and stayed together for a long time.
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Yes, true love can take a break! I had been with my fiancée for over a year. We had a house and jobs and we were doing pretty well. Until about two weeks ago, I woke up and there was a note saying that he left and wasn't coming back. I fell apart. He lied to me and continues to. But, I have no doubt in my mind of heart that he loves me. He moved over 500 miles away from his family and everything he has ever known just to be with me. We have been through so much since we have been together. I have talked to him twice since he has been gone and every time, he says he loves me and misses and when I ask him if he thinks in the future we will be together, he says yes. I will eventually trust him again. I have faith in him and I believe in him. You have to have faith in your love and know that if it is true love nothing can change it. When you truly love someone and you are apart, you start to love them more. Sometimes, a break is a good thing. Have faith and believe in the other person and in yourself, if they really love you and you truly love them. Time will bring you back together. Love always finds a way.
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It's like a yes and no answer.
You can say true love never should take a break because if it's true love, then why does there need to be a break? If there's a fight or argument and if something happens in the relationship, I think if that person truly loves you they wont try and take a break. Personally, I hate breaks, because it happened before to me and then the girl turned her back on me and went to hang with another guy and ended up dating him, which hurt so much because you know you have feelings for someone and, yet, you have to look at them all but cheat on you.
Also, taking a break in true love can be like there's a ton of love, but before you commit to that love, you need to know how much this person means to you and live life like that.
I'm sure not any expert on this. I've been through so much when I was younger. Yet I wanted to run away from all the pain and all love can be a powerful force.
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I am in this situation right now. I have been with my girlfriend for three years, and the relationship was moving in the direction of making a serious commitment and getting married. I had always hoped, dreamed and believed that we would marry and have a home together. But, as things became more serious in the relationship, she began to pull away and I began to get clingy. We both became afraid, and this fear caused a lot of tension. Finally, she asked for a three week break to figure things out. This is the hardest thing to do to give her the space to do that, because I need her, I am scared, and all I want is for all of this to go away and just to curl up next to her and hold her forever. I will admit that for the first three days, I called her, emailed her and even went to her house. I hated myself for it every time. But starting today, I will do everything it takes to give her the time and the freedom she needs. I respect her for wanting to take this time to figure things out. I respect her for being honest about her needs. And I know that I have a lot of work to do before I am even worthy of her love. Ironically, I need to learn to be OK without her in order to be with her. The good thing is, the more I can take care of myself now, the easier it will be to do the same thing if she doesn't come back.
That's the most roundabout way to my answer: I think there's no single answer to this question. Taking a break in a relationship is almost always a sign of serious strain and troubles. Sometimes, taking a break is a sign of an imminent breakup. And, sometimes, it is the beginning of something wonderful. Either way, take this time to work on yourself, to make yourself stronger and more independent. Most likely, if you, like me, were not the one who initiated the break, there was a imbalance of power in the relationship. You might have been a little too smothering and clingy, your partner may have been distancing themselves, and you may have been caught in that vicious cycle for a long time. If handled correctly, the break can be an opportunity to readjust that imbalance. If you are able to keep your cool, take care of yourself on your own, and not seem too desperate, you will gain a lot of worth, both, in your own eyes and those of your partner.
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Be careful not to let it take a permanent break... :|
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Yes, true love can take a break. I was getting too clingy and and never letting her go out or hang out. She asked for a month break and she said "I wanna see if I even miss you if you're gone". I told her that a month is too long! And, we figured that in a week, we will start to talk see how things are going if she misses me, then good. But, if she doesn't, then we would give it another week or two. She also said she didnt want any forms of contact. I thought it was a little ridiculous, but I am still in this process, at this moment. And, she is still dating me as of right now, and I believe things are gonna turn out good and everything will be good. Just like someone else said before making that final desicion point in life, "If you truly want to be with someone, then, you might have to take a break. Get out see if you really miss that person enough." I agree 100% with that. I have been in this relationship for 2 years now and love her to death. I hate not being with her and cry at least 2 times a day over it. I drove to her housing developement and stopped before entering. I just wanted to see her or even her house. But, I said "No. She really would be mad and I would drive her away if she found out that I did." And, yes, true love can take a break.
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I am asking myself this question right now and have been asking it for three months now, because me and my boyfriend broke up back in January. He broke up with me, because he felt like he was getting pushed away by the negative things that I did that caused us to break up, such as arguing, bringing another guy in between us, not getting along and agreeing on things, etc. He told me that he felt like we needed a long break from each other and that me and him should just be friends and that we would get back with each other some day again, because true love always find a way back to one another. I believed him, but, now, he has a girlfriend and I'm still single, because I was waiting for him to be ready to be with me again. This hurt me and still hurts today somewhat, but I feel like he still loves me and I do still love him. In my opinion, I think that true love can take a break, so the other one who has messed up or caused the break up can appreciate the other person more and when they get the second chance, they will do a million times better in the relationship. Also, if a relationship isn't healthy and have too many problems, it's necessary to take a break, no matter how long, so that the two can be able to miss each other and realize who they love. True love taking a break is always a positive thing to do in my book. If it is necessary to take a break then two who are in love should do so, not to end the relationship, but to realize things that they didn't realize while they were in a relationship, but I feel like true love always finds its way back to one another and I feel like my boyfriend and I will be back together some day again, no matter how long it takes, a week, a month, or even some years for us to get back together. I feel like we will, and even though he has a girlfriend, I feel like he's going to realize who his true love is and who he should be with, because the heart don't lie when it comes to true love.
As a matter of fact, if it is true love, it shouldn't have to take a break. Breaks are for relationships, in which can not handle the time and effort it takes to be included in one.
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